[mdaeb]

I am sorry if I pissed off a few of you girls EXPECAILLY the ones that are REALLY there to be ff.
I see it as this.........I can tell you WHY the guys think less of you (the ones that flirt/date and wear things that are not professional/ go to parties hang all over the guys etc but if you dont want to hear it than keep on wondering WHY you are not respected. but I really dont have time for your forum and I only came here cause I stumbled across it while doing a search for something else.
remember you have to have respect for yourself to earn it threw the guys to take you serious, if you flirt and date the guys and than wonder why the other guys talk about you. (DUH)
but like I said I only came here cause I stumbled across this site and thought I would tell you what I know from the other side. but it seems to me that you dont get it anyways. those of you who state I am an unhappy person a poor soul etc i REALLY feel for you I dont see you getting my point at all and I see you always wondering WHY you are having a hard time in the fd. but trust me I am a VERY HAPPY person and I thought I would give you my thoughts of what I know what the guys say and the number one thing is respect yourself and they will respect you too. dont respect yourself and date some of the guys and dress unprofessional and stuff and you loose that respect they dont see it as you are there to do a job but rather you are there for a variety of choices. and a job is never about WHO ALL you can date at your work.........
so this is my last post cause I am to busy to keep up with your stuff but I wish you all well those of you that are trying to earn respect may you get it and those of you who are not give it up they REALLY do see threw you...........

[Sarah Silence]

Riiiiiight...you were doing something else and you're really just (Golly gee!) way too busy to post anymore!

I'm not buying it.

This seems more likely: you might be married to a firefighter, but I doubt it. If you are, then I think you came on here more out of jealousy towards the women who work with him, than out of some blind coincidence. You wanted to know more about these women who could...GASP!...be strong enough to work with your GOD of a husband!

Or, more likely, you're just a bitter internet troll who has nothing better to do than to enter a forum for no reason besides insulting people.

In any case, it's good that you're "too busy" to stay here.

Kisses!

[FireCali]

You know Mdaeb has her nerve. I have been reading some of the posts that she has written, and she has all of her information mixed up. I will be married to a firefighter in several months and am also a firefighter and do not feel that all of the women in the firehouse are out to date men. For her information I think she is in Hick town, because she talks about the men not sleeping in womens quarters does she know that in many of the departments at least here on the West Coast the men and women sleep in the same sleeping quarters of course there are different restrooms, and also the men wear shorts not their underware, because that would be like a woman walking around in her panties.
Please if she only knew half of the crap you hear at the firehouse from the men, I wouldnt date any of them if my life depended on them. The crap they say about some of their significant others, many even degrade them in some way whether intentional or not, but not all are that way. I say what I am about to say about some of the men I WOULDNT TOUCH THEM WITH A TEN FOOT POLE IF MY LIFE DEPENDED ON IT (frame of speech). Many of the men are good men, but many are also little players and cheat on their wives. Mdaeb shouldnt speak until she is in the position to hear and see for herself what is said and done in the firehouse. the half of it. Dame Mdaeb you say your Hubby has been a firefighter for 20 years and you are still not secure with yourself and your relationship with him?